The Kitchen House, Kathleen Grissom
First Edition: 2010
Original language: English
Told from the point of view of an orphaned Irish indentured servant and the illegitimate daughter of a tobacco plantation owner and one of his slaves, The Kitchen House tells the story of slavery in the US through unconventional, female eyes. Lavinia’s parents die on the crossing from Ireland and she is thrown into the kitchen house and the family of slaves that serves the white family in the big house. Belle runs the kitchen house, cooking the meals for the captain, his wife and their children. What the captain’s family doesn’t know is that Belle is his daughter.
As she grows up, Lavinia becomes accepted into white society and is forced to leave her family in the kitchen house. In her haste to return to a life that she can never have again, Lavinia makes a series of decisions that will have world-altering consequences for everyone connected to the plantation.
“A brilliant sunrise in a cloudless sky threw gold on our small world.”
“What the color is, who the daddy be, who the mama is don’t mean nothin’. We family, carin’ for each other. Family make us strong in times of trouble. We all stick together, help each other out. That the real meanin’ of family. When you grow up, you take that family feelin’ with you.”
“Sometimes we got to live it out before we learn.”
Kathleen Grissom says she wrote the novel after she and her husband restored a plantation tavern in Virginia. The story came to her as she researched the history of the place and as she lived there and felt the energy of the place. I love it when authors let us in to where there stories and ideas come from…
This book was a wonderful read- the kind of book you want to read slowly to make it last, but can’t resist reading as fast as possible. “Ok, just one more chapter…”
Neither Lavonia nor Belle fit into the southern society of the times and from their unique vantage point, they speak to certain aspects of slavery and southern society in a different and insightful way. Both are women that have a change of leaving their subservient positions in life, but neither want to. Ultimately this choice is their undoing. In this way, Belle views the captain’s giving her her freedom papers as a way of kicking her out- something that other slaves could only dream about. Lavinia views sitting up front in church and ultimately her move away from Tall Oaks in much the same way.
The relationships between men and women were also treated in an interesting way, as Grissom explores rape, incest, love, companionship and friendship through the characters in the book and the way they interact with each other.
Perhaps the most poignant part of the book is Mama Mae’s view of life, reflecting the only way life could be endured in a situation of slavery and bondage: “You look at today, chil’. You say, ‘Thank you, Lawd, for everythin’ you gives me today.’ Then you worries about the next day when the next day come.”
- Slavery Haunts America’s Plantation Prisons (moorbey.wordpress.com)
- Little Known Black History Fact: A Slaves’ Christmas (blackamericaweb.com)
This is making the rounds in a lot of library book clubs and I’ve been meaning to pick it up. Thanks for the review!
Thanks, I really loved it and would recommend it to my friends!
Thanks for the review. You’ve offered many reasons to pick this one up and dig in! http://ohtheplaceswesee.com
Thanks for this excellent review! I just finished Mary Chesnut’s Civil War diary and found it fascinating to see the complex interactions on plantations, so this resonates with me right now.
Thanks- I’m going to add that to my reading list!
This is a wonderful review you have written. I read the book a while back and absolutely loved it for many of the same reasons you mentioned. I have recommended it to many friends and some have actually read it and loved it too. I wonder if you’ve also read Cane River by Lalita Tademy, Jubilee by Margaret Walker, or Stand the Storm by Breena Clark. There are many others, but I loved these historical novels focused on slavery in America. Lalita Tademy’s is based on her own family history which makes it even more meaningful. Thanks for a great post. I will be following! – Ilene
Hi Ilene! Thanks for the great comment! I will definitely check those out as I LOVE historical fiction. Thanks!
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I had to read this for my reading assignment for school. And honestly I think it wasn’t that interesting. Sorry not sorry.